Conversation Guide

Gग्रूU
2 min readApr 8, 2024
  1. Intention : whats the game plan of the conversation. Best conversation starts with the approach, have a nice body language with a smile.
    whats a good opening line ?
    1. Hey, How are you?
    2. Conversation Sparks: oh really! (eyebrow raise)just a simple feed back in conversations.
    3. Conversation Ending: Future mentions( what are you doing this weekend ? some thing Say good luck. nice meeting.)

F.O.R.D

Family: Talk about your family, you see that guy there he reminds like my brother he never let have let down, siblings are great, Do you have siblings?

Accumulations ?

Occupation: Not to dwell on surface level conversation.
I’m a teacher ? Okay what do you teach, where do you teach ?…. bla bla.
Just add a comment in between, oh you know when i was a young, I like teaching, it’s something about making other passion.

Recreation: What do the other person like to do, if they say rock climbing & if you don't know about it you can always ask questions like “I’m fascinated by rock climbing, what exposed you to it”

Dreams: Have you ever thought about being something.
I wish to make this like meaningful more than just 9–5.

A. Sarcastically Agree, Playfully Disagree
Wait What ?, No Way! Okay byee Liar!

B. Aggregation
Don’t be more logical, If just having water you can make conversation like a tease way so I don’t have to catch you from the window.

C. Conclusion: Tease Fun Names.

D. Callback Humor: Just calling back the before teasing & more humor.

i. Be the first one to approach -> shows you are proactive

ii. better voice

iii. stop pleasing, don’t try to do the things, be a leader. Don’t be afraid when agree to do something out of fear. that is a problem and gives them their attraction otherwise

iv. be at edgy on style & clothing

v. Don’t be a follower:- have your options on all of things don’t have a FOMO.

  1. Conversation
  2. Contact
  3. 3–4 text Are you free on wed-thus, plan the resources.
  4. hey look, i’m having a good time,I’m enjoying getting to know you want to come back to my place, keep it going, listening to some music, maybe have a drink.
  5. Be Dominant
  6. Accept the fear, Its okay if i lose it, accept it Its okay.

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Gग्रूU

When you are into something just take a moment out, think & jot it down, that's the poetry of life worth telling!